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		<title>F*Ree Downloadable Easter Calorie Chart</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Apr 2011 01:20:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jtaylor</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Downloadable Easter Calorie Guide from the Patron Saint Permanent Fat Removal]]></description>
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<p>Our Lady of Weight Loss, the patron saint of permanent fat removal, asked me to share with you this <a href="http://maildogmanager.com/page.html?p=000001XDDtjL05Hb4QcGYywqQgu9Xjn834uHF7EC2U+pB/FeceFQ==" target="_blank">downloadable version of her Easter Candy Chart.<br />
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<p><a href="http://maildogmanager.com/page.html?p=000001XDDtjL05Hb4QcGYywqQgu9Xjn834uHF7EC2U+pB/FeceFQ==" target="_blank">Download,</a> print and carry with you!  Make copies for your friends!!!</p>
<p><em>Spread the word … NOT the icing,</em></p>
<p><em>Janice Taylor</em><br />
<em> wise * fun * utterly useful</em></p>
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For the best in wellness and weight loss wisdom, visit Janice:<br />
<a href="http://www.ourladyofweightloss.com/">Our Lady of Weight Loss</a><br />
join the <a href="http://www.kickinthetushclub.com/"><em>Kick in the Tush Club</em></a><br />
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		<title>It&#8217;s TIME! Let YOUR Weight Loss Warrior Out!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Apr 2011 17:57:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jtaylor</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The aggressive energy that rumbles through you is simply the Warrior within that is thirsting to accept responsibility, wanting to come out and lead YOU to victory!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-family: Verdana,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: x-small;"><span style="color: #000000; font-family: Trebuchet MS,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: georgia,times new roman,times,serif; font-size: small;">I have  in the past written about the difference between being  assertive and  aggressive – and advocated for the assertive side of life –  stating  that there’s no need to bring the police into the picture!!!!  <em>(Referencing   an incident I had –or created, depending on your point of view – in an   Italian restaurant in Little Italy, at which time I specifically said  at  a minimum of three times, “NO BUTTER!”  Nevertheless, when served,  my  food was swimming in butter! It got ugly!).<br />
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However, I was WRONG. True enough, although it is the first time that I’m wrong!  But I’m woman enough  to admit it. </span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Verdana,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: x-small;"><span style="color: #000000; font-family: Trebuchet MS,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: georgia,times new roman,times,serif; font-size: small;">There is nothing wrong with being AGGRESSIVE.  In fact,  it is the RIGHT PATH!!!  It is the WAY of the WEIGHT LOSS WARRIOR!!!!<br />
<strong><br />
AGGRESSIVE ENERGY</strong><br />
Aggressive energy is an essential part of being human.   Aggressive  energy will always be with you.  It is an integral and  meaningful part  of you and it is up to you whether or not you use it for  good or ill or  even worse, deny it altogether.</span></span></span></p>
<p>When you deny aggression, you are abdicating tapping into this   natural and vital well of energy and power.  It is your natural resource   that can make all the difference.</p>
<p>The aggressive energy that rumbles through you is simply the  Warrior  within that is thirsting to accept responsibility, wanting to  come out  and lead YOU to victory!</p>
<p>You have, in our time together, made the decision to permanently   remove your excess weight; you have looked into your future; filled up   on confidence; spoken words that energize and motivate; fed the soul and   the body and now …<br />
<strong><br />
It is TIME!!! To let YOUR WARRIOR OUT!!!!</strong></p>
<p><strong>YOUR WARRIOR</strong> … gets things done!<br />
… gives you a sense of yourself as Champion of Your Vision.<br />
… slays the dragons of fear and doubt.<br />
… is inspired and optimistic.<br />
And when your warrior runs into obstacles your warrior recognizes them as tests and does not abandon her Quest …<br />
… YOUR WARRIOR … battles on.</p>
<p>Your warrior … perseveres in the face of difficulties, in the face of temptation.</p>
<p><strong>Good Intentions Are NOT ENOUGH.</strong> Sacrifice is necessary.</p>
<p><strong>How you and your warrior bond together now will determine the  outcome of your story. </strong></p>
<p>Will you live your best life, or will you remain  in bondage to food,  emotional eating, and the circumstances that life  throws in your path?</p>
<p>Your Warrior actually enjoys discipline, planning, and  boundaries.   Your Warrior does not stamp its feet and act like a 4  year-old; your  warrior sees the above as opportunity to live life to the  fullest.</p>
<p>Be a Warrior.  Be a Weight Loss Warrior.</p>
<p>Spread the word … NOT the icing,</p>
<p>Janice Taylor<br />
wise * fun * utterly useful<br />
<a href="http://blog.beliefnet.com/ourladyofweightloss/files/2011/03/Janice-Taylor_103.jpg"><img src="http://blog.beliefnet.com/ourladyofweightloss/files/2011/03/Janice-Taylor_103-199x300.jpg" alt="" width="143" height="216" /></a><br />
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For the best in wellness and weight loss wisdom, visit Janice:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.ourladyofweightloss.com/">Our Lady of Weight Loss</a><br />
join the <em>Kick in the Tush Club</em><br />
<a href="http://www.virtualshoulder.com/">Virtual Shoulder</a></p>
<p>Follow Janice Taylor on Twitter: <a href="http://blog.beliefnet.com/ourladyofweightloss/2011/03/www.twitter.com/OurLady">www.twitter.com/OurLady</a><br />
Facebook:  <a href="http://blog.beliefnet.com/ourladyofweightloss/2011/03/www.facebook.com/OurLadyofWeightLoss">www.facebook.com/OurLadyofWeightLoss</a></p>
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		<title>Balanced Life: How to Swab Down the Mental Decks</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Mar 2011 19:36:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jtaylor</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Want to swab down the mental decks with me? Clean out the guilt, regret, anger, worry and who knows what else that is crammed into the corners of our minds? These thoughts are affecting our physical well-being, as well as zapping our energy. Cleaning out the cobwebs frees us up for productive thoughts, allows our ideas to flow easily and creates luscious feelings of spaciousness.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The winter is over <em>(hip hip hooray</em>), and I’ve started my spring cleaning! <a id="itxthook0" style="font-weight: normal; font-size: 100%; text-decoration: underline; border-bottom: 0.075em solid #996633; padding-bottom: 1px; color: #996633; background-color: transparent;" rel="nofollow" href="http://blog.beliefnet.com/ourladyofweightloss/2008/03/swab-down-the-mental-decks-of.html#"></a> <em></em>I’m  not just cleaning out the closets and sweeping the tumbleweed dust  balls from under the bed but also working on my clutter filled mind.  Yup, my mind is filled with an assortment of – for want of a better word  – crap that is blocking my energy, my focus – even my resolve.</p>
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<p><strong>Want to swab down the mental decks with me?</strong> Clean <a id="itxthook1" style="font-weight: normal; font-size: 100%; text-decoration: underline; border-bottom: 0.075em solid #996633; padding-bottom: 1px; color: #996633; background-color: transparent;" rel="nofollow" href="http://blog.beliefnet.com/ourladyofweightloss/2008/03/swab-down-the-mental-decks-of.html#"></a>out  the guilt, regret, anger, worry and who knows what else that is crammed  into the corners of our minds? These thoughts are affecting our  physical well-being, as well as zapping our energy. Cleaning out the  cobwebs frees us up for productive thoughts, allows our ideas to flow  easily and creates luscious feelings of spaciousness.</p>
<p>Step One: <strong>FORGIVENESS</strong>. Forgive someone else  and/or yourself. Be merciful. Clean out the anger, jealousy, self-doubt.  If it is not possible to make amends with another (or self), in your  mind’s eye imagine filling up a dump truck with these pieces of anger,  slices of jealousy, remnants of self-doubt, and take them and leave them  at the junk heap in the sky. Take Our Lady of Weight Loss’s motto is <em>“All Is Forgiven, Move On”</em> to heart. Forgive and move on.</p>
<p>Step Two: <strong>LET GO OF THE PAST</strong>. Move into the  present. If you are reliving your yesterdays, you are missing your  todays. Stop for a moment. Take in a deep breath and on the out breath,  let go of the past. Ahhhh.</p>
<p>Step Three: <strong> ATTITUDINAL ADJUSTMENT</strong>. Start  with feelings of gratitude. Practice giving instead of taking; share and  share some more. Simply experience the blue sky, the green grass, the  joy of just being alive.</p>
<p>Step Four: <strong>LIGHTEN UP.</strong> Laugh it up, lighten your thoughts. Make time for fun each and every day.</p>
<p><em>How might you lighten your mental load? </em></p>
<p>Spread the word … NOT the icing,</p>
<p>Janice Taylor<br />
wise * fun * utterly useful<br />
<span style="display: inline;"><a href="http://blog.beliefnet.com/ourladyofweightloss/Janice%20Taylor_103.jpg"><img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 20px 20px 0pt;" src="http://blog.beliefnet.com/ourladyofweightloss/assets_c/2011/03/Janice%20Taylor_103-thumb-300x450-21951.jpg" alt="Janice Taylor, creator of the Kick in the Tush Club" width="200" height="300" /></a></span><br />
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For the best in wellness and weight loss wisdom, visit Janice:<br />
<a href="http://www.ourladyofweightloss.com/">Our Lady of Weight Loss</a><br />
join the <em>Kick in the Tush Club</em><br />
<a href="http://www.virtualshoulder.com/">Virtual Shoulder</a></p>
<p>Follow Janice Taylor on Twitter: <a href="http://blog.beliefnet.com/ourladyofweightloss/2011/03/www.twitter.com/OurLady">www.twitter.com/OurLady</a><br />
Facebook:  <a href="http://blog.beliefnet.com/ourladyofweightloss/2011/03/www.facebook.com/OurLadyofWeightLoss">www.facebook.com/OurLadyofWeightLoss</a></div>
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		<title>Dysfunctional Chef Friday:  Strawberries and Apple Crumble</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Mar 2011 11:09:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jtaylor</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[While shopping at our local grocery store, I eyed a display of strawberries. Strawberries! Big red delicious, succulent strawberries, piled high into the sky! True enough! Even though strawberry season officially begins in June and runs through mid-August, new farming methods extend its season from now (right now) till mid-December!  So ... I grabbed a few crates and then some apples, too. A few other ingredients, and I was good to go. When I got home, I whipped up the best 8-ingredient dessert ever! Guiltless dessert. Healthy dessert. Oh me-oh-my I heart dessert!]]></description>
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<p><span style="display: inline;"><a href="http://blog.beliefnet.com/ourladyofweightloss/apple.jpg"><img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 20px 20px 0pt;" src="http://blog.beliefnet.com/ourladyofweightloss/assets_c/2009/10/apple-thumb-400x555-8375.jpg" alt="Our Lady of Weight Loss: Apple Brown Betty Recipe, Best Ever" width="300" height="400" /></a></span></div>
<p>Apples to the left of me, strawberries to the right of me!</p>
<p>While shopping at our local grocery store, I eyed a display of  strawberries.  Strawberries!  Big red delicious, succulent strawberries,  piled high into the sky!  True enough!  Even though strawberry season  officially begins in June and runs through mid-August, new farming  methods extend its season from now (right now) till mid-December!</p>
<p>So &#8230; I grabbed a few crates and then some apples, too.  A few other ingredients, and I was good to go.  When I got home, <a id="itxthook0" style="font-weight: normal; font-size: 100%; text-decoration: underline; border-bottom: 0.075em solid #996633; padding-bottom: 1px; color: #996633; background-color: transparent;" rel="nofollow" href="http://blog.beliefnet.com/ourladyofweightloss/2011/03/mt-preview-accfce4a41ae83e5b7b0289d5cc619d9571a28b5.html?070249#"><span id="itxthook0w0" style="background: none repeat scroll 0% 0% transparent; font-size: inherit; font-weight: inherit; color: #996633;"> </span></a>I whipped up the best 8-ingredient dessert ever!  Guiltless dessert.  Healthy dessert.  Oh me-oh-my I heart dessert!<br />
<strong>Strawberry and Apple Crumble</strong></p>
<p><em><strong>Ingredients:</strong></em><br />
1 lb. cooking apples<br />
1 1/2 cups strawberries<br />
2 tablespoons organic granulated sugar<br />
1/2 teaspoon ground cinnamon<br />
2 tablespoons orange juice</p>
<p><strong><em>Ingredients for the &#8216;Curative&#8217;* Crumble</em></strong><br />
3 tablespoons plain wholemeal flour<br />
2/3 cup oats<br />
1/4 cup butter or margarine, softened<br />
*Curative; cause crumbles always make me smile. And smiling is always a good, good thing to do!</p>
<p><strong><em>Instructions:</em></strong><br />
Preheat the oven<a id="itxthook1" style="font-weight: normal; font-size: 100%; text-decoration: underline; border-bottom: 0.075em solid #996633; padding-bottom: 1px; color: #996633; background-color: transparent;" rel="nofollow" href="http://blog.beliefnet.com/ourladyofweightloss/2011/03/mt-preview-accfce4a41ae83e5b7b0289d5cc619d9571a28b5.html?070249#"><span id="itxthook1w0" style="background: none repeat scroll 0% 0% transparent; font-size: inherit; font-weight: inherit; color: #996633;"></span></a> to 350 degrees.<br />
Peel, core and slice the apple.<br />
Halve the strawberries.<br />
Toss the apples, strawberries, sugar, cinnamon and orange juice.<br />
Gently place into a ovenproof dish.<br />
Set aside!</p>
<p>Mix the wholemeal flour, oats and softened butter with a fork.<br />
Sprinkle the crumble evening over the fruit.</p>
<p>Bake for 40 minutes, until golden brown and bubbling.<br />
Serve warm.</p>
<p><em>Sounds yummy, doesn&#8217;t it?  And easy and healthful too!<br />
Enjoy.  Feel free to share your favorite yum delish, healthful recipes below!!!!</em></p>
<p>Spread the word &#8230; NOT the icing,</p>
<p>Janice Taylor<br />
wise * fun * utterly useful<br />
<span style="display: inline;"><a href="http://blog.beliefnet.com/ourladyofweightloss/Janice%20Taylor_103.jpg"><img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 20px 20px 0pt;" src="http://blog.beliefnet.com/ourladyofweightloss/assets_c/2011/03/Janice%20Taylor_103-thumb-300x450-21951.jpg" alt="Janice Taylor, creator of the Kick in the Tush Club" width="200" height="300" /></a></span><br />
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For the best in wellness and weight loss wisdom, visit Janice:<br />
<a href="http://www.ourladyofweightloss.com/">Our Lady of Weight Loss</a><br />
join the <em>Kick in the Tush Club</em><br />
<a href="http://www.virtualshoulder.com/">Virtual Shoulder</a></p>
<p>Follow Janice Taylor on Twitter: <a href="http://blog.beliefnet.com/ourladyofweightloss/2011/03/www.twitter.com/OurLady">www.twitter.com/OurLady</a><br />
Facebook:  <a href="http://blog.beliefnet.com/ourladyofweightloss/2011/03/www.facebook.com/OurLadyofWeightLoss">www.facebook.com/OurLadyofWeightLoss</a></p>
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		<title>Motivational Monday: 8 Tips for Living a Balanced Life</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Mar 2011 13:30:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jtaylor</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[,,,, the best-laid plans of mice and men often go awry.  No matter how carefully a project is planned, something may still 'go wrong' with it.  When lucky, we experience a minor glitch; a glitch so small and short-lived that you hardly notice it - a transient fault that corrects itself.   However, there are the times when a hornet's nest of difficulties presents itself, and you need to change course, immediately, lest you get knocked off your tush!  Here, Janice Taylor, Life and Wellness Coach, shares 8 ways to 'keep balance.']]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I imagine what it looks like to live a balanced life, two thoughts come to mind.</p>
<p>The first is the &#8220;Jack theory.&#8221;  All work and no play makes for a cranky  Jack. All this and no that, too much of this and too little of that,  just doesn&#8217;t work.  The challenge here is to balance what we must do  with what we enjoy and want to do.   We need to carve out time for the  serious stuff as well as play.</p>
<p>The other way to live a balanced life has more to do with going with the  flow; not letting the inevitable glitch in our day throw us  off-balance, sending us careening off course.   It&#8217;s about staying  balanced.</p>
<p>In other words, the best-laid plans of mice and men often go awry.   No matter how carefully a project is planned, something may still &#8216;go  wrong&#8217; with it.  When lucky, we experience a minor glitch; a glitch so  small and short-lived that you hardly notice it &#8211; a transient fault that  corrects itself.</p>
<p>However, there are the times when a hornet&#8217;s nest of difficulties  presents itself, and you need to change course, immediately, lest you  get knocked off your tush!</p>
<p>Here follows eight guidelines on how you can &#8216;root&#8217; yourself in  balance, enabling you to smile and stay steady the course, even in the  face of the inevitable hiccup, glitch or major league malfunction.</p>
<p><strong>8 Tips For A Well Balanced Life<br />
&#8230;  go with the flow, baby, lest it knocks you off-balance</strong></p>
<p>1. <strong>Take Care of YOU</strong>.  I promise you that your health  is the key ingredient to ALL!  They don&#8217;t say, &#8220;If you&#8217;ve got your  health, you&#8217;ve got everything&#8221; for nothing!  It&#8217;s the truth.  You simply  cannot function in high gear, if you don&#8217;t get the right amount of  rest, exercise or good, <a id="itxthook0" style="font-weight: normal; font-size: 100%; text-decoration: underline; border-bottom: 0.075em solid #996633; padding-bottom: 1px; color: #996633; background-color: transparent;" rel="nofollow" href="http://blog.beliefnet.com/ourladyofweightloss/#"><span id="itxthook0w0" style="background: none repeat scroll 0% 0% transparent; font-size: inherit; font-weight: inherit; color: #996633;">healthy</span></a> eats (a.k.a. real food vs. processed &#8217;stuff&#8217;).   At some point, &#8216;it&#8217; will catch up with you.</p>
<p>2. <strong>Set Priorities</strong>.  Leading your &#8216;best life&#8217; does  not mean that you need to be or should try to be perfect and do all.  It  means that you self-reflect, known thyself, determine your true values.   Not knowing who you are and what you want and trying to do everything  is a recipe for burnout and disaster.  Do not bite off more than you can  chew!</p>
<p>3. <strong>Plan Pretty</strong>.  No, planning is not a dirty word,  although you might think it is based on the response I sometimes get  when I stress the importance of planning.  Do not stamp your feet, like a  3 year old and say, &#8220;I don&#8217;t like to plan.&#8221;   Keeping an organized  calendar and planner, tracking your appointments and food, your (a.k.a.  movement for the exercise phobic), leads to freedom.</p>
<p>When you plan, you essentially dump your thoughts onto the page,  organize them so they do not overwhelm you, which leads to a productive,  relaxed kind of day.  Instead of cringing at the thought of &#8216;planning,&#8217;  embrace it.  Once again, planning presents a clear path out of the  state of &#8216;overwhelm&#8217; and into a state of &#8216;freedom.&#8217;</p>
<p>4. <strong>Stuff Happens; Expect the Unexpected</strong>.  Have you ever had a day when something unexpected <em>didn&#8217;t</em> happen?  An unexpected phone call, unexpected traffic jam, a platter of  pretty cupcakes being paraded in front of you or maybe worse yet, a  computer crash?  Stuff happens my friends.  Stuff happens big time.  So  expect the unexpected and just roll with it.</p>
<p>5. <strong>Wake Up Happy.</strong> Your first thoughts are the most  powerful, the strongest and they can set a tone for the day.  You can  easily train yourself to begin each and every day with a positive  thought.</p>
<p>Begin to pay attention to your waking thoughts.  If they are not  &#8216;happy&#8217; or useful thought, change them.  In the place between being  asleep and fully awake, note your thoughts and change them if you have  to, or if positive and useful, embrace them.  &#8220;Today, I am going to get  organized and &#8216;motor&#8217; through the day with great, happy energy.&#8221;  Vs.  &#8220;Crapola, it&#8217;s Monday.  Another day, another dollar.&#8221;  Get my drift?</p>
<p>6. <strong>Stay Connected with Family and Friends.</strong> Another  key ingredient to living a balanced life and staying &#8216;in balance&#8217; is  your connection to your friends and family.   However busy you may be,  be sure to reach out to at least one friend or family member daily.   Preferably, in real time, either in person or via telephone; not  electronically!  There&#8217;s nothing like the real thing.</p>
<p>7. <strong>Be Spontaneous.</strong> On the one hand, I do believe  that planning equals freedom, as mentioned above.  On the other hand,  let&#8217;s not get so rigid that we lose the ability to be spontaneous.  If  you suddenly have the urge to go for a long walk, go to a movie, hook up  with a friend at lunchtime, feed the hummingbirds &#8230; do so!</p>
<p>8. <strong>Breathe Deep and Unwind.</strong> At the end of your  glorious day, take a minute or two or thirty to unwind.  Curl up with a  good book, take a hot bath, listen to music that soothes or stirs your  soul.  Do nothing.  Take in a few deep, cleansing breaths, congratulate  on a day well-lived and just plain relax.</p>
<p><em>What is the one most important thing that you do to help you stay balanced, enabling you to go with the flow?  Weigh-in below!</em></p>
<p>Spread the word &#8230; NOT the icing,</p>
<p>Janice Taylor<br />
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		<title>What does your &#8216;one nightstand&#8217; say about you?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Mar 2011 18:38:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[As Dr. Rubin Naiman, sleep specialist and clinical assistant professor of medicine at the University of Arizona's Center for Integrative Medicine, explained at the Weil on Wellness Program at Miraval Resort Spa, so aptly put it ... "If sleep is a nightly get-away, then the nightstand is the overnight bag we carry at our side. We can learn a lot about a person and their travels by examining their bags."]]></description>
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<p>I&#8217;m referencing the one night-stand that sits next to your bed.  The stand that you dump the contents of your day onto before you drift  off to sleep. The stand that holds your eyeglasses, your meds, your  alarm clock, the book(s) you are reading, maybe your laptop, your cell  phone, your landline, a pad, a pen or two, your watch, your rings, a  glass of water, a glass of wine, your peace pipe, your sex toys, sugary  snacks, crunchy snacks, full meals, and maybe a statue of the Buddha.  And let&#8217;s not forget all our sleep paraphernalia, including eye masks,  aromatherapy candles, sound machines, sleeping potions and sleeping  pills.</p>
<p>What does your one night-stand say about you and about your quality of sleep?</p>
<p>As <a href="http://www.drnaiman.com/">Dr. Rubin Naiman</a>,  sleep specialist and clinical assistant professor of medicine at the  University of Arizona&#8217;s Center for Integrative Medicine, explained at  the <a href="http://www.miravalresorts.com/The-Experience/Andrew-Weil-M.D.-Integrative-Wellness-Program">Weil on Wellness Immersion Program at Miraval Resort Spa</a>,  so aptly put it &#8230; &#8220;If sleep is a nightly get-away, then the  nightstand is the overnight bag we carry at our side. We can learn a lot  about a person and their travels by examining their bags.</p>
<p>&#8220;What&#8217;s on your night-stand? Is it suggestive of a rejuvenating  personal retreat? Or, is it more about a stressful business trip?&#8221;</p>
<p>Dr. Naiman&#8217;s &#8220;one night stand&#8221; concept instantaneously captured my  imagination! And from the sounds of the gasps, the aHA and light-bulb  moments popping throughout the room, I was not alone. An intriguing and  simple visual that tells me with certainty what I am dragging with me  throughout the day and straight into the night.</p>
<p>Hungry for more insights on what my nightstand says about me, and  curious how I can have a more restful and rejuvenating sleep, I caught  up with Dr. Naiman post-conference for a most soporific conversation.</p>
<p>JT: How might the contents of our &#8216;nighttime baggage&#8217; interfere with a good night&#8217;s sleep? What does it matter?</p>
<p><em>RN: Take a closer look at what&#8217;s on your nightstand. Ask yourself  if these things encourage a natural surrender to sleep or keep you  subtly tethered to the world of waking.</em></p>
<p><em>Things that keep you connected to waking such as clocks, lamps,  radios, computers and telephones, as well as energy spiking foods,  substances and information have no place on an overnight sleep retreat.</em></p>
<p><em>The ubiquitous digital clock, for example, can draw us back into the waking world of time.</em></p>
<p>JT: If one is &#8216;out,&#8217; how does it specifically draw us back into our  waking world? And retreat? Am I really going on an overnight retreat?</p>
<p><em>RN: The depth to which we will go &#8216;out&#8217; depends on our  willingness to let go of the waking world. It&#8217;s nearly impossible to  resist the temptation of checking the time when we can&#8217;t sleep. But,  doing so draws us into even greater wakefulness. To make matters worse,  both the light and the electromagnetic field radiating from such a  device suppresses melatonin, further compromising our sleep and overall  health. Best to get the thing away from your head and your bed.</em></p>
<p>JT: Melatonin?</p>
<p><em>RN: Melatonin is a complex neuro-hormone synthesized from  serotonin &#8212; primarily in the pineal gland or &#8220;third eye&#8221;-when we are  exposed to dim light or darkness. I think of melatonin as the queen of  our nighttime biology. It gently but decidedly ushers our bodies, brains  and minds into sleep and dreams.</em></p>
<p><em>Melatonin has been touted as a miracle substance. As a key player  in our night biology, it regulates circadian rhythms, facilitates  sleep, and promotes dreaming. Melatonin is also involved in the  regulation of a wide range of hormones and neurotransmitters and  functions as a potent antioxidant. Beyond its usefulness in managing jet  lag, circadian rhythm disorders and insomnia, a growing body of  research is finding that melatonin shows promise in treating diverse  conditions like hypertension, premenstrual syndrome, macular  degeneration and even certain cancers.</em></p>
<p>JT: Do you take melatonin?</p>
<p><em>RN: I personally have been taking a small dose of melatonin  nightly for nearly 20 years. I don&#8217;t do so to help with my sleep. I take  it because I believe that like most people, I am overexposed to light  at night. I use a .5 mg sublingual and sustained release preparation of  melatonin. Sublingual means that it dissolves under the tongue. This  carries the melatonin directly into the bloodstream before it can be  filtered out by the liver. And a sustained release preparation will  remain active throughout most of the night, in contrast to standard  melatonin which has a very short half life.</em></p>
<p><em>To date, melatonin has a good safety profile. Much better than  most popular sleeping pills. Still, it is generally not recommended for  use in children and during pregnancy. Melatonin may exacerbate nighttime  asthma and, possibly, certain autoimmune conditions. Its always wise to  talk with a knowledgeable physician before embarking upon  supplementation.</em></p>
<p>JT: During your talk at The Weil for Wellness Immersion at Miraval  Resort Spa, you mentioned that our nightstands reflect our personal  stance toward sleep and that we are all too frequently &#8216;desperate&#8217; for  sleep.</p>
<p><em>RN: Yes, when faced with the prospect of yet another bad night,  many of us will do whatever it takes to make it through the night.  Whether it&#8217;s about overeating or relying on alcohol or sleeping pills,  such a one night stand approach ultimately backfires. It erodes our  belief in our own natural ability to surrender to sleep.</em></p>
<p>JT: Overeating? Do you mean that people get up in the middle of the  night and graze, snack or binge as a way to get back to sleep?</p>
<p><em>RN: Because eating triggers a relaxation response that  temporarily sooths anxiety, food can readily become a kind of drug we  depend on to get to sleep. Unfortunately, sleeplessness can readily  become entangled with a number of eating disorders. Although sleep and  eating are both nourishing, in one respect, they are opposites. Eating  energizes us. Sleep is about relinquishing energy. We don&#8217;t sleep in our  refrigerators. We shouldn&#8217;t eat in bed.</em></p>
<p><em>Ultimately, we need to think in terms of developing a sustainable  relationship with sleep. Consider developing a personal, soothing  evening ritual under gentle low-blue lighting. This might include a warm  bath, some yoga or stretching, meditation or prayer, and some light or  even lighthearted reading. And always, in the end, it&#8217;s about  surrendering to sleep</em>.</p>
<p>JT: Thank you Dr. Naiman. Fantastic! Any final thoughts for our readers?</p>
<p><em>RN: Yes. I think it&#8217;s helpful to reflect on this simple truth: We  are all always already asleep. What I mean by this is that sleep is the  foundation of all consciousness. It&#8217;s always present beneath our  waking. And because we&#8217;re already there, we literally can&#8217;t &#8216;go to  sleep.&#8217; Trying to do so will only further activate the wakeful part of  us. What we can do, of course, is learn to let go of waking and practice  surrendering to sleep</em>.</p>
<p>For more on restful and rejuvenating sleep visit Dr. Rubin Naiman: <a href="http://www.drnaiman.com/">www.DrNaiman.com</a></p>
<p>And be sure to order your copy of <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Yoga-Sleep-Scientific-Practices-Sleeplessness/dp/159179918X/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1298907027&amp;sr=8-1">The Yoga of Sleep</a>. Highly recommended!</p>
<p>Spread the word &#8230; NOT the icing,</p>
<p>Janice Taylor<br />
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		<title>Rise and Grind Wednesday:  Caffeine and Sugar Improve Memory?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Mar 2011 17:01:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Scientists recently found that sweetened caffeinated coffee not only gives you an energy boost to prepare you for your busy day, but it also help you to remember by boosting cognitive performance.]]></description>
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<p><span style="display: inline;"><a href="http://blog.beliefnet.com/ourladyofweightloss/whph%20coffee.jpg"><img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 20px 20px 0pt;" src="http://blog.beliefnet.com/ourladyofweightloss/assets_c/2009/08/whph%20coffee-thumb-400x266-7137.jpg" alt="Quick Weight Loss : Caffeine" width="400" height="266" /></a></span>Dig  it!  Scientists recently found that sweetened, caffeinated coffee not  only gives you an energy boost to prepare you for your busy day, but it  can also help you to remember by boosting cognitive performance.</p>
<p>The golden, sugary, yum delicious nugget of this research showed that  when caffeine and sugar are taken together, they help boost the brain&#8217;s  performance, as compared when they are ingested separately.</p>
<p>The research was conducted at the University of Barcelona, Spain, and  it included conducting brain scans of 40 volunteers.  The volunteers  were tested after they consumed coffee with sugar, coffee without sugar,  just plain sugar and just plain water.</p>
<p>The findings showed that when these two substances &#8211; caffeine and  sugar &#8211; when taken together, improved brain performance.  The combo  increased the efficiency of two regions of the brain; regions that are  responsible for sustained attention and working memory.</p>
<p>(Source: journal of <em>Human Psycho-pharmacology: Clinical and Experimental</em>)</p>
<p>While this may be exciting for us caffeine and sugar lovers, remember  &#8211; there are 16 calories per teaspoon of sugar.  This &#8216;news&#8217; by no means  gives license to over-indulging and creating a sugar high.</p>
<p>Nevertheless, I am going to purposefully enjoy my teaspoon of sugar soaked in coffee this morning.</p>
<p><strong>More Coffee News:</strong><br />
<a href="http://blog.beliefnet.com/ourladyofweightloss/2011/01/jigsaw-sunday-coffee-and-aspir.html">Coffee and Aspirin Cure</a><br />
<a href="http://blog.beliefnet.com/ourladyofweightloss/2010/09/quick-weight-loss-caffeine.html">Fast Weight Loss and Coffee</a>!!!</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[What does it mean to be your authentic self? During their much-touted interview on Monday night, Oprah told Piers Morgan that being her authentic self was and is key to her success. But what does it mean to be your authentic self?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What does it mean to be your authentic self?  During their  much-touted interview on Monday night, Oprah told Piers Morgan that  being her authentic self was and is key to her success. But what does it  mean to be your authentic self?</p>
<p>Dr. Phil defines authentic self as, &#8220;the you that can be found at  your absolute core. It is the part of you that is not defined by your  job, your function or role.&#8221;</p>
<p>Human beings speak in metaphors, and while I understand that having a  &#8220;core&#8221; is a metaphor and/or a mythical place that we imagine lives  within, I still would be grateful if Dr. Phil, Oprah and/or any one of  the &#8220;healers&#8221; true and/or self-proclaimed (authentic or fictional), can  tell me where my authentic self and its absolute core live.</p>
<p>If it is at the heart of what matters, then does it lie within my  heart? Does it beat? Pulsate? Have a life of its own? Is my core behind  my liver or perhaps under my pancreas? If someone is rotten to the core,  can they request a core transplant?</p>
<p>And if you are at times not your true self; not your authentic self, then who are you?</p>
<p>Dr. Phil makes the distinction between &#8220;authentic&#8221; and &#8220;fictional&#8221;  selves. He describes the fictional self&#8230; &#8220;When you&#8217;re not living  faithfully to your authentic self, you find yourself feeling incomplete,  as if there is a hole in your soul.&#8221;</p>
<p>Another set of questions come hurling forward from what I suspect is my authentic self, although I can&#8217;t be sure.</p>
<p>The questions: Where is my soul? How do I repair its hole? And&#8230;  Does your authentic self call upon your fictional self, at times, to  surface? You know, maybe your fictional self is needed at a meeting;  maybe your fictional self is a better negotiator than your authentic  self. Therefore, your fictional self is at times your authentic self and  visa-versa.</p>
<p>You see, it&#8217;s rather tricky, isn&#8217;t it? Even when you are striving to  be something that you are not, how do you know that you are not that &#8212;  and perhaps you need to stretch yourself to become that?</p>
<p>What about multiple selves? Each of us has the capacity to be  generous and selfish, loving and hateful, inclusive and magnanimous as  well as petty and small. Which part of ourselves live at our core?</p>
<p>Is this where free will comes into play? Do we each have the ability  to choose what aspects of our character we&#8217;d like to develop?</p>
<p>From the psychoanalytic perspective there are differing opinions.  Some theoreticians concur with Dr. Phil. They believe there is a core,  authentic self. Other analysts believe that we are composed of a  multiplicity of self that emerge in different situations.</p>
<p>Despite the different perspectives, aren&#8217;t we all seeking peace, harmony, love and satisfaction in whatever way we arrive at it?</p>
<p>Perhaps, dear reader, you can journey inward and see what answer resonates for you.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of my star coaching clients (you are all stars), confessed that she found herself walking in and out of the kitchen all day long - looking.  Opening and closing the cabinets, the fridge, the oven ... over and over and over again - all day long ... looking, foraging, helping herself to a bite of this and a lick and taste of that.  ]]></description>
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<p>One of my star coaching clients (you are all stars), confessed that she found herself walking in and out of the kitchen all day long &#8211; looking.  Opening and closing the cabinets, the fridge, the oven &#8230; over and over and over again &#8211; all day long &#8230; looking, foraging, helping herself to a bite of this and a lick and taste of that.</p>
<p>Needless to say, this was not helping her weight loss efforts.  So &#8211; together we came up with a plan. Aside from exploring what she was really looking for, as in life and not food, we still wanted to keep Martha (the name has been changed to protect the innocent) out of the fridge.  You dig?</p>
<p>So &#8230; Martha made signs that read &#8220;What am I looking for?&#8221; and posted them on all the cabinet doors and the fridge.  The signs created a &#8216;pause.&#8217;  Martha stopped and read them, giving &#8216;pause&#8217; for thought.  What was she looking for, indeed?</p>
<p>The signs were working brilliantly for weeks.  And then one day Martha told me that she&#8217;d returned to her old routine, foraging the fridge, grazing the pantry.  I said, &#8220;Oh no, are the signs not working any longer?&#8221; To which she replied, &#8220;Oh, they fell down.&#8221;</p>
<p>Martha put them back up with sticky tape, this time, and they are still working wonderfully!</p>
<p>The moral of the story: If your signs fall down, put them back up!</p>
<p>Spread the word &#8230; NOT the icing!</p>
<p>Janice Taylor<br />
wise * fun * utterly useful</p>
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		<title>11 Tips:  Will Your New Year&#8217;s Resolutions wear THIN?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Whether you are one of the 44% of Americans who make New Year's resolutions or not, the new year does present an opportunity to reassess, revamp and revive.  Today, Janice Taylor, your Weight Loss Success Coach shares 10 tips that will help you to keep the energy going!]]></description>
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<p><span style="display: inline;"><img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 20px 20px 0pt;" src="http://blog.beliefnet.com/ourladyofweightloss/Dog%20Water%20Bottle%20Girl%202.jpg" alt="Our Lady of the Remarkable Body" width="425" height="400" /></span>Whether  you are one of the 44% of Americans who make New Year&#8217;s resolutions or  not, the new year does present an opportunity to reassess, revamp and  revive.</p>
<p>Here follows 10 tips from the <a href="http://www.ourladyofweightloss.com/">Our Lady of Weight Loss Vault</a> that speak to &#8230;<strong><br />
Why do our New Year&#8217;s Resolutions Wear Thin???</strong></p>
<p>1. <strong>How Excited and Inspired Are You, Really?</strong> Are the  goals you set your own, or are they coming from the &#8217;shoulds&#8217; &#8211; &#8216;musts&#8217;  and &#8216;have tos&#8217; that other people have laid upon you? If you are not  excited, forgetaboutit.</p>
<p>2. <strong>Did You Bite Off More than You Can Chew?</strong> Be  realistic for goodness sake. You can&#8217;t start off with 300 pound weights.  Try a 3 pounder first! Small changes create big results.</p>
<p>3. <strong>Help!!!</strong> No woman is an island unto herself. We  all need people in our lives that can help and lend support. Make a two  column list right now. On the left side list your resolutions. On the  right side, list who can help you!</p>
<p>4. <strong>Did You Write it Down?</strong> No! Well you gotta!  Statistics show that 75% of what we write down happens. Putting your  goals on paper both alerts your brain that you are &#8220;open for business,&#8221;  as well as sending a strong and positive message to the universe,  declaring that you are, indeed, &#8220;in the game!&#8221;</p>
<p>5. <strong>What&#8217;s your plan?! Huh?</strong> You don&#8217;t have one! Writing down your goals is important, but a plan is what keeps you on track.</p>
<p>6. <strong>What&#8217;s your first action step?</strong> Like hola, Tushkateers! Writing it down and making a detailed plan are important steps, but then you must take action.</p>
<p>7. <strong>Don&#8217;t Let Life Get in the Way.</strong> It&#8217;s easy to let life take over. Going to work, getting the laundry done, going to your kids&#8217; soccer games, etc. etc. We barely have time to breathe! I get it!!! Therefore,  you must schedule your goals. Whatever it is that you need to do to  manifest, put it on your calendar. Even grocery shopping for fruits  &amp; veggies.</p>
<p>8. <strong>Go Towards the Positive vs. Pushing Away from Negative.</strong> Instead of focusing on the negative habit you want to let go of, look  toward your happy, compelling future. For instance, if you want to quit  smoking, focus on what a healthy life looks like. Remember, we manifest  what we focus on.</p>
<p>9. <strong>Drowning in Drama.</strong> At some point, doubt and fear  will surface. When your &#8216;evil twin&#8217; speaks to you, rather than believe  that voice and get sucked into the drama, you need to move back into  action, immediately. It takes a strong &#8216;want power&#8217; muscle to do it, but  I know that you have it in you!</p>
<p>10. <strong>Failure is Feedback.</strong> Brace yourself, friends.  You will fail here and there, because failure is a part of the process.  When things aren&#8217;t going your way; when your action plan isn&#8217;t working,  it&#8217;s time to review and revamp! Failure is merely feedback. Tweak it and  move on. No ten year detours allowed!</p>
<p>11.  <strong>Fatitude Adjustment. </strong> If you fill your head  with self-defeating thoughts and negative prophecies, or expect instant  results, or beat yourself in any manner of speaking, then consider <a href="http://the21daycure.com/new-fatitude">signing up for a FATitude Adjustment</a>!</p>
<p>Spread the word &#8230; NOT the icing!</p>
<p>Janice Taylor<br />
<em>Weight Loss Success Coach<br />
wise * fun * utterly useful</em></div>
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